purge, interrupted

After much talk and preparation – which consisted mostly of obsessing and fretting, I have begun the unenviable task of clearing out my storage space. It’s been a daily ordeal.  I show up at the storage facility, punch in the convoluted nine digit code – after ten straight visits I Read more…

‘edit’ vs ‘delete’

I’m house sitting a dear pal’s loft while he and his family sup and sip their way through the south of France. He’s lived here for twenty years and everywhere the eye lands tells a story from his life. He has lived an interesting life. Interesting people tend to do Read more…

like riding a bike

Do one thing every day that scares you. There are a lot of scary new things happening right now.   They are happening for the first time and the only time.  You can only watch your father die once.  Unless your parents are gay and you have two dads.  My Read more…

no more harsh truths

When I began studying yoga and Ayurveda I could not reconcile the first two Yamas.  I”m going to grossly simplify things and say that the Yamas and Niyamas, there are five of each, are the commandments of yoga.  The first echoes the Golden Rule, Do No Harm.  The second is Read more…

Bit by bit*

Darkness metastasized. Bring more Light. This is an S.O.S. telegram. This is a prayer. This is an order. This could be an affirmation. Or a reminder – a Post-it™ for life. It is hard to see in the dark. That is philosophically self-evident. my shout-out to Julian Barnes. I’m trying Read more…

embrace the goofs

TABULA RASA   I took Latin in tenth grade.  I have no idea why, but probably at my father’s behest.  I use this word generously.  The course wasn’t completely awful, I discovered my favorite phrase and philosophy:  Tabula Rasa.  A clean slate.  I abused the term generously. Mistakes, gaffes and Read more…