yes to me

“I start at 6:00. Sharp.”  She said., “Life happens, I get it, but if you’re chronically late you have to look at that.” There were ten of us in the room but I was pretty convinced she was talking to me.  It was 6:10 when I squeezed through the  door, Read more…

look again

“The best thing, though, in that museum was that everything always stayed right where it was.  Nobody’d move.  You could go there a hundred thousand times.. Nobody’d be different.  The only thing that would be different would be you.  Not that you’d be so much older or anything.  It wouldn’t Read more…

Make the middle count

What procrastination looks like today. today  today  today I walked the dog, because it was a good thing to do.  And a selfless act too because the snowstorm had just started.  Well, mostly selfless since I did have to pick up a book at the library.  But I didn’t have Read more…

39.5 an update

I introduced the concept of Lent to my nephews over supper.  I hadn’t signed off on either wheat or meditation although I had abstained from the former and practiced the latter that morning just to cover my bases.  The boys were eagerly engaged in the debate with Number 1 proposing Read more…

forty days

We’re an hour into Lent on the East Coast.  I am not Catholic but for three days I’ve been racking my brains about what to give up for the next forty.  Over the years I’ve given up tangible things like wine, chocolate, and coffee.  I’ve tried intangible concepts like giving up Read more…

lesson from the mat

Humpday.  Once upon a time I hated Wednesdays.  Nothing good ever happened on a Wednesday.  Mondays offered the hope of a clean slate, Fridays brought release and Thursdays were magical.  But on Wednesday I was stranded in the middle waiting to get to the end.  And then things changed, as Read more…

monday manifesto: change

manifesto; noun, mission statement, proclamation, declaration, announcement Every since the Whitney Houston news and the onslaught of opinions, I’ve been re-examining my own struggles with change.  Most people I know want to change something in their lives, whether it’s physical or material.  We are saturated with books, DVDs, programs, pills and Read more…