EVERY voice counts

“This,” cried the scientist “is your Earth’s darkest hour!” ” The time for all Who’s who have blood that is red, to come to the aid of their planet!” he said.  “We’ve GOT to make noises in greater amounts!  So open your voice lad!  For every voice counts!”     Read more

By justk, ago

you’ve got to feel it to believe it

A little something to share…Grief’s Not a Disease! (thedailybeast.com) As far as I see it, you can’t medicate grief.  You can try but you will fail.  It’s going to hurt, but it’s going to hurt more the longer you put it off – kind of like removing a band-aid.  And the Read more

By justk, ago

get that breathing thing in the bag

My sister subscribes to a lot of magazines – every thing from glossy fashion to cutting edge innovations. One of them is a woman’s mag our mom used to subscribe to and it has monthly contests. One of the contests asks readers to submit responses to a question for a Read more

By justk, ago

GONG HAY FAT CHOY!

Today is the first day of the Lunar New Year – Year of the Dragon. I am one quarter Chinese, probably more than half black but there’s a world of bloodlines in my family – including Scottish, Portuguese and Jewish, so all the measurements are suspect.  It’s always been easiest Read more

By justk, ago

move on

He’s shuffling down the street with that side to side list kids get when they ‘re cocooned in down – snow pants, parka and heavy soled water proof boots.  And he’s bawling.  The nylon snow pants keep up the swish swish rhythm under his open mouth sobs.  I’m walking nephew Read more

By justk, ago

stuck in the middle

I hate feeling stuck – stuck in traffic, stuck in the check out line that doesn’t move, or stuck in the subway between stations.  The worst is feeling stuck in your own life.  It sucks.  I particularly hate the ‘you suck’ voice that becomes the interior soundtrack of my stuck Read more

By justk, ago

Cycles

I’m no statistician but for each death there is a birth.  That has been my experience.  Within six months of my mother’s death my sister gave birth to nephew No.2.  That sounds like pretty limited experience but there are other examples, the most recent ones striking a cord. Last week Read more

By justk, ago

the club

Brevity is not my strong suit.  If it can be said in ten words or less I will masterfully find a way to express it in forty.  It’s a gift.  But there is one arena where I am skillfully succinct – sharing my condolences.  It is easy to express myself Read more

By justk, ago